06/03/2026
When I was a waitress I would receive little gifts from regulars like jewelry and special coins, when I did massage therapy and energy healing, I would get bottles of wine, frozen meat and fish, CDs, and more. Having this shop I get bags of items for my granddaughter, spending money when she knows I’m going somewhere, honey, and gifts of herbs, and donations for my giveaways.
Today I received lunch from Velo, this large potted flower basket, and trinkets for the Trinket Boxes. Gifting is a love language for many people including myself and why I love having a gift shop. I sometimes can’t spend too long with the ones I love as I’m a sensitive but I still want them to know how much I love and think about them, so I gift something I know they would like.
I’ve met many gift givers having a shop. I can see how much thought goes into what they are picking out, and because Im a smaller shop I’ve gotten to know these customers on a different level. A fast paced place, shop or business just has people coming through, purchasing and leaving. I never want to get to be too big that I can’t form a bond with you, talk with you, and help you pick out what you may need. I know more about some people than their own families know, it’s always been that way when I’m in service related jobs.
I read this from a business I’ve ordered my lavender from and follow on Instagram, and it really resonates with me. They wrote more than this but I’m borrowing these words…
“Small numbers mean a better experience for everyone. The best things aren’t meant to be crowded” Hereward Farms
Our connections are the best gifts. So thank you Ruthan for your support, with the business and as the beautiful human being you are.