08/12/2026
All,
Here's the August Hooked on Books column in the Selma Times-Journal about David Sedaris. It wasn't easy to write because Sedaris provokes such contradictory feelings (in me at least). Are you a fan of his? Or not?
"Being David"
Sometimes I wish I knew David Sedaris. And other times, I don’t.
You’re familiar with David, right? Award-winning humorist, best-selling author, edgy talk-show personality and all-around opinionator?
If you aren’t, not a problem. His fans in Alabama seem few and far between. (His recent 50-city promotional book tour stopped only in Fairhope and Birmingham.)
So, you’re not alone. But that’s OK. And he’s OK. He can live without us. Sales of his latest book, The Land and Its People, are pushing 16 million.
And what does that signify? That a lot of readers like to be toyed with. Played with. Because that’s what David does. Nicely, mind you. Deftly, surely. He’s like a cat with a bunch of willing insects. (We’re the insects.) He might begin a story with a savage observation about his late father. A few sentences later he’ll be making you giggle at the job he had as a Macy’s Christmas elf. Next thing you know, he’s off on a beguiling tale about eating tires.
Let’s pick a chapter from The Land and Its People to show you how slyly David can trick you into finding him endearing one minute, and the next, showing you how mistaken you might be.
After beginning the chapter with news of the death of an almost-forgotten childhood pal, David takes us back to happier days, with the two boys in grade school, being pranksters together. Spying on naked carnies at a circus. Shoplifting pet mice from a department store. Fighting over ownership of a turtle.
At 14, David meets a girl. He introduces her to his friend, who falls for the girl. At a mall, the new lovers decide to ditch David, humiliating him and destroying the boys’ friendship.
But does David feel resentful? Maybe for a second before he turns big-hearted, managing a (rather cringey) admission: “That’s how it was with [Dan]… He allowed me to feel that some part of myself was likable …”
The chapter ends, David at home with his husband Hugh, who’s fallen asleep in front of the TV. David covers the sleeping Hugh with a blanket, then quietly fastens three clothespins in his hair. (“[when he wakes up] I like him to know I ------ around with him.”)
Moments later, sitting alone in the silence of his Upper East Side apartment, he muses: “This is my life, but different now, diminished, because my old friend, who was there at the start and who made it so very worthwhile, has died.”
No irony. No quips. No evasions. It’s at moments like this that I want to know David Sedaris. Not just the talented writer, or the fun-meister, or the engaging celebrity, but someone who can confront a difficult friendship with grace while turning clothespins into gestures of love. All at the same time.
Now that’s one cool cat.
The owner of Selma’s Fair Oak Books, D.B.Tipmore is the author of My Little Town and the forthcoming novel, Barefoot Boy, to be published by Rattling Good Yarns Press. He can be reached at [email protected]