05/27/2026
My rebirth is making me look different to people who only knew the survival version of me.
At 17 years old, with two children, a high school dropout, rejected, insecure, and needing to fit in, I learned how to people please, stay quiet, and abandon myself to be accepted.
But as I approach 49, I’m realizing the most important relationship I will ever have is the one with myself.
Knowing my values.
My principles.
My mindset.
My discipline.
My truth.
And that requires honesty.
Boundaries.
Courageous conversations.
Accountability.
Self-respect.
The healed version of me may appear “difficult” to people who benefited from the version of me that stayed silent.
But I’m not attacking anyone.
I’m finally acknowledging myself.
Once you acknowledge God within you, you realize you can no longer betray your spirit just to keep others comfortable.
You stop fearing rejection and start fearing self-abandonment.
So if you’re experiencing resistance because you’re changing, growing, healing, and becoming more honest with yourself, understand this:
You are not becoming harder to love.
You are becoming harder to manipulate.
If you cannot be true with yourself, how can you expect the world to be true with you?
Authenticity is our highest frequency.
