11/22/2024
I hadn't declutterred my home since Covid 2020. Since I have had some time off between jobs recently, I have been reflecting a lot on life. I've come to the realization that just because I LIKE all the stuff I have in my home, doesn't mean I should keep it. Some of these items have sentimental meaning, and some have great memories associated with them. However, as the years go by, I notice that my stuff can sometimes feel like it is controlling my life! For example, the more stuff I have, the longer it takes to clean my home, the more there is to move when I'm cleaning floors, more to dust, and put away! These reasons can make things physically more difficult in my life.
One of the things I've realized with having more stuff is the negative mental impact it has on me. The more stuff I have can feel overwhelming. Even when things are stored away out of sight in a cupboard or drawer. The phrase, "Out of sight, out of mind," may work for some, but for me, not so much.
Since I started major decluttering when Covid happened in 2020, I have been on a mission to simplify, and keep only things that I absolutely LOVE! It all started with a BIG list! Writing down my goals of what to tackle, declutter, and organize. I went room by room, until my entire house was declutterred and organized. I got rid of so much home decor, extra sheets, blankets, makeup, kitchen items, etc!
Now, almost 5 years later, I'm slowly revisiting all the rooms, cabinets, and drawers, and have found much more that I'm ready to say goodbye to! In the process, I've sold a ton of it on FBMP, and it gives me such joy to see the people on the receiving end, so happy to be repurposing my items, and giving these items a new home and life! It's a win win all around!
In closing, I'd like to say that my list is almost completely checked off! Out of my entire home of the past 22 years, I've declutterred every space there is in this home.; every closet, drawer, cupboard, attic, backyard, and front yard! This leaves me with 2 last things to go through until I've conquered my BIG list, which are; the garage, and my box/albums of pictures.
This process was definitely time consuming, stressful, emotional, draining, and overwhelming. At the same time, as I near the end of the list, I am feeling lighter, less stressed, and definitely more appreciative of what I decided to keep.
Most of all, there is a feeling of gratitude of what I do have, and this relates not to material possessions, but what I value most these days, which is my health, and my family. Without these last two, nothing else matters.
(Below are some photos of the most recent purge of stuff that I've sold/donated in the past month)