06/04/2026
🌟 3 years ago today... 🌟
Three years. It feels like an eternity since I last heard your laugh, but the pain of losing you still feels like it was just yesterday. Three years ago today, my beautiful boy, Rydder, went home to be with Jesus after his 14-month battle with DMG.
Not a single day goes by that I don’t think about you, bud. I miss our fishing trips. I miss watching you play Fortnite. I miss your bright energy, your mischievous smile, and the incredible heart you had for your brothers. You were only 8 years old, but you taught me more about strength, courage, and faith than most people learn in a lifetime.
Being your dad was, and always will be, the greatest honor of my life. You faced a monster like DMG with a bravery that still amazes me every single day. You are my hero.
To anyone who knew him, or even just met him—please wear your Rydder gear today. Wear blue. Wear rainbows. Let him know that you are still remembering him, so he can look down from heaven and find you all today.
The world isn't the same without you in it, Rydder, but I know you are still looking out for us up there. I will carry you with me in my heart everywhere I go, until I can hold you again.
I love you forever and always. 💙🕊️🌈