06/08/2026
Good morning.
Wow… what a weekend.
I’ve been reflecting for the past few days on Fight Night with Downtown MMA — on the event as a whole, and especially on Bill’s fight. And since today is Monday, my self‑care day, I let myself sleep in for the first time in a long time. My body needed the rest after everything it has silently been carrying.
For months leading up to this event, a lot had been stirring in me. Even though I’ve been in the gym a million times — watching little ones, teens, adults, and those who fight simply to stay connected to the sport that runs through their veins — this was different. This time, someone I love was stepping into that cage.
What I’ve learned is this:
People see fighting and think “violence.”
But what I see is discipline, strategy, heart, motivation, determination, and the deeply personal reasons people choose this sport.
Some gain confidence.
Some heal old wounds.
Some find strength.
Some simply love the challenge.
And the truth is… these athletes are no different than you or me. They have jobs, families, responsibilities. They walk the same streets. You’d never know unless they told you — because for most, this is a sport, not a lifestyle. And it’s sad how many people don’t understand that.
These humans are building skill and strength for the challenges life throws at all of us. It’s their outlet. Their therapy. Their passion. And yes — some genuinely love the fight itself. And that’s okay. The world needs all kinds of people to keep spinning: strength and softness, beauty and grit, courage and fear, passion and peace. Take one piece away and everything shifts.
I’ll be honest — I missed almost all the fights.
We had seven VIP tables, and I spent most of the night checking in on Bill’s supporters — family, friends, former students from his old gym… all still there for him after all these years. I put myself in an emotional place to be supportive, so I found comfort in watching the people who showed up for their loved ones.
And that’s something I want to acknowledge…
Every fighter had people there for them.
Moms. Dads. Kids. Partners. Friends. Teammates. Coaches.
People who paced, prayed, cheered, held their breath, and held their hearts.
People who showed up because they believe in someone who was brave enough to step into that cage.
Korneli’s was packed.
The energy was unreal.
And for a first event, TJ at Downtown MMA did a phenomenal job.
As for Bill’s fight — I know many are wondering.
He lost.
But let me tell you something…
At 54 years old, after more than 12 years out of the cage, training on and off, and then committing to this event…
He went all five rounds with a man younger, taller, and longer than him.
Both fighters are winners.
Most people don’t see that part.
Yes, there’s always a winner and a loser on paper — but in reality, they both won in so many ways. They put on a show. They entertained. They gave everything they had. And the crowd felt it.
At the end of the night, both warriors had groups of supporters waiting for them as they stepped out of the cage. That’s what winning looks like.
Both were carried off the floor by teammates, supporters, and family.
Both went to the ER.
Both are now home, safe, and being loved on by the people who matter most.
So yes — they both win.
And honestly? Every fighter who stepped into that cage this weekend does too.
Congratulations, Jose.
Congratulations, Bill.
Congratulations to every athlete who showed heart, courage, and grit.
You all earned respect.
You all win.
