03/22/2022
Fun Matters
It fills up my tank. Which, when I was younger, had been empty for a long time.
When I started seeing live music years and years ago, I was blown away by how FUN it was, and with how much happiness I felt. I didn't even know it was possible to be...
*That fully alive
*Connected to the truest most sparkly, silly, authentic part of me
*Connected to others in such a deep way
Not until I experienced it first hand. If you had tried to explain it to me, I wouldn't have believed you.
Then, at a music festival I noticed that my face was literally hurting from smiling so much, which then made me laugh hysterically. Here I was, cackling like a crazy person with tears running down my face, trying not to p*e my pants while rubbing my cheeks because they were so sore. From sheer glee. It all seemed so delightfully absurd and I wanted more. It became my life's work to understand what was happening.
That's the power of True Fun. It overfills my tank with love, joy and appreciation to where it spills out (hopefully not down my pants) into the world for everyone to see. And benefit from. And share in. And contribute to. And it feels soooooo good. Happiness found.
It took me a long time to figure out that chasing happiness was the wrong target and way to get there. I learned that happiness is the gauge, the emotional indicator, measuring high levels of the tank, and not something to seek itself.
What was I DOING to feel burstingly happy? Having True Fun.
Which, it turns out, is a learnable experience that can be replicated, once you understand your unique makeup of these three elements.
Playfulness personality
Connection style
Flow forms
Music is a HUGE flow element of my funprint. And so is physicality, thrill & learning.
And even though music is probably my biggest element, going to more and more shows wasn't the answer.
Mapping my funprint changed my life. I have WAY more moments of True Fun & and so much happiness. Which I want for you too!!
I'm so excited to share all of this with you. I'm working on a new project to help you map your own funprint in a way that is REALLY FUN!
The Musical Shenanigans kind of fun.
Hugs & Sparkles ❤