Thrift Addict MNL

23/06/2024

21/01/2022

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I have been paying attention to this when I feel myself shrinking away from declaring a need that I have. When that happens, I examine that. Instead of saying to myself “Will my asking for this need push this person away?” I ask myself to sit with why I feel like I am in a relationship with someone where I don’t feel safe to ask for my needs.

Text Reads: You think you’re being a low maintenance partner but you’re actually just afraid your partners won’t show up to your needs, so you pretend to not have any.

You should impact the space that you’re in. It’s OK to require things from the people in your life.

You’re not “too much”.