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24/01/2019

24/01/2019

Signs My Ex Still Loves Me

2019-01-17 02:36:31



5 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You

1、They Make An Effort To Keep The Conversation Going When It Starts To Die Out

2、They Can’t Help But Touch You

3、They Respond To Your Messages Promptly

4、Proximity To You (Physically And Electronically)

5、Willing To Try Things You Like

Let’s take a moment and dissect these five things so you have a full understanding of what to expect.

Sign #1: They Make An Effort To Keep The Conversation Going When It Starts To Die Out

Conversations never have one clear trajectory.

Here’s the one thing you have to remember.

Time is undefeated.

In other words, the longer the conversation is the more likely it is for the satisfaction level of the conversation to drop.

There is a point where you run out of things to talk about on the phone after three hours.

Sign #2: They Can’t Help But Touch You

In a strange way we are a slave to our bodies.

Perhaps that’s not a scientific way of looking at it. If you want to get technical we are all a slave to our brains.

Nevertheless, have you ever been with someone where you just naturally had this inclination to touch them.

I’m talking about innocent touching.

·Hugs

·Little touches on arms

·Holding hands

·You get the picture

Sign #3: They Respond To Your Messages Promptly

Sign #4: The Proximity To You (Physically And Electronically)

Scientists found something interesting when they looked at how people fall in love.

Generally speaking, the closer someone is to you the more likely they are to have feelings for you.

Now this applies in every sense of the word.

I’m talking about physical closeness, general closeness and even electronic closeness.

If someone has feelings for you or is in love with you it is inevitable that they will find themselves in close proximity to you.

Sign #5: They Are Willing To Try Things You Like

When we love someone we tend to try things that are outside our comfort zone.

We do things we don’t want to do.

18/01/2019

Reader Question: Should I Text The Ex And Say I Miss Him?

2019-01-07 08:01:49



A lot of women want to know if they should text their ex boyfriends that they miss them or any sort of “lovey” text.

Smiling woman textingThe answer is, it depends on a number of factors. How long has it been since you two broke it off? How long have you two not been talking? What was the nature of the breakup? Is he with another girl?

Try the Opposite Strategy

What you think will work is usually the complete opposite of what does work. This is based on a solid foundation of science and research.

So if your ex boyfriend hasn’t sent you any signal that he wants to get back together with you, then you definitely should not text your ex boyfriend that you miss him.

In fact, you should do the complete opposite of this first. You need to send signals to your ex boyfriend that you don’t miss him and that you’re completely over him.

So instead of texting him, “I miss you so much … please come back to me!”

Text him one of these instead:

“I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad we did what we did. Hope all is well.”

Or something like:

“I’m relieved that we came to this decision. I think this is for the best. Thank you for being such a great boyfriend.”

It’s All About Being Strong-Minded

Essentially, you are trying to sub-communicate that you are a strong-minded and autonomous woman. Men do not respond well to women constantly harassing and berating them (in fact, this is one of the well-known “un-attractors” that women can exhibit to men).

So when you do the complete opposite of what a low-level woman does, your perceived value to him will be much, much greater!

Man happy over text

Texting him something like, I miss you is what I like to call a Weak Signal. Weak Signals are essentially the bane of attraction.

Have you ever heard the famous saying, you want what you can’t get? It’s 100 percent true! This goes for almost everything.

I mean, have you ever desired something??

16/01/2019

Should You Contact Your Ex Girlfriend?

2019-01-07 06:08:46



Should you contact your ex girlfriend? That’s the “million dollar question.”

If your goal is to win her over again, then most “relationship experts” will tell you that you shouldn’t contact her for a period of time.

While this information is mostly accurate, not communicating with your ex girlfriend will only work if you do it correctly. If you’ve been sending your ex girlfriend Weak Signals before initiating your “no contact” phase, then you’re actually just hurting your chances of ever winning her back.

About Weak Signals

If you’ve been sending too many of these signals before your “no contact” period even starts, you’ll just leave a horrible taste in her mouth and she’ll grow even more repelled by the thought of you.

What you need to do is restructure your approach so that once you stop communicating with your ex girlfriend, you will set a more positive tone for the duration of the “no contact” period.

Restructuring Your Approach

There are a couple of ways to do this.

First, if you’ve been sending your ex girlfriend Weak Signals (like telling her you miss her and constantly trying to talk to her), then stop. You’re just pushing her further away.

Second, start acting as if you’re happy about the break up. Most men will start acting depressed and heartbroken after getting dumped, but you must fight the urge to portray those emotions! Bottle them up for now (and let them go behind closed doors!).

Third, and most importantly, you should tell your ex girlfriend about how glad you are the two of you broke up. Say that the breakup was a positive thing. By doing this, you’ll slowly begin to shift the power from her to you, and once you initiate the “no contact” phase, she’ll be wondering what you have been up to.

After you’ve done these three things, then stop talking to her, but you have to develop a solid plan of attack for when she’s ready to be seduced again.

16/01/2019

How to Pick Up Men

2019-01-03 02:46:05



Gone are the days of men running the dating world. Instead, some of the smoothest talkers and biggest scorers on today’s scene are women.

The idea of “picking up” can be absolutely terrifying. From risking rejection to the fear of forgetting your words, putting yourself out there can feel as intimidating as strolling through a pack of hungry wolves wearing a meat suit – you risk being eaten alive.

If you’re looking to get lucky though, here are five tips for picking up men.

Look Good

A big part of this happens before you leave the house.

When choosing an outfit, pick one that highlights your best features. For instance, if you have killer legs then a fitted skirt could do the trick, or if you’re a bit self-conscious of your curves then a flowing top or dress with accessories works well. Keep in mind that less is more, so there’s no need to bare all to get his attention.

Also be sure to sport your sexiest lingerie. This doesn’t necessarily mean he’s going to be lucky enough to see it, but just knowing what you’re hiding underneath your clothes will make you feel like a fierce vixen.

Once in public, make a point to freshen up before approaching your target. Give your hair a brush, re-apply your lipstick, clean up any smudged eyeliner and straighten your shirt or skirt. An extra dash of perfume doesn’t hurt either.

Know Your Target

Depending on the kind of guy you’re after, your attack method will vary. For instance, an outgoing guy will be much more susceptible to obvious flirty banter, whereas a shy guy may find himself speechless or scamper away.

To get an idea of the type of man you’re planning to approach, make note of the role he plays in his social circle. Is he the life of the party, or a docile listener? Does he grasp at the spotlight, or sit patiently and observe.

Also note his body language. Is he expressive with his hands, or does he smile and laugh a lot? Does he look bored, annoyed or that's the time.

11/01/2019

Are You At Home? HUSBAND: My wife where are you? WIFE: At home love. HUSBAND: Are you sure? WIFE: Yes. HUSBAND: Turn on the blender. WIFE: (turns blender on) reeereeeereeee HUSBAND: Ok my love goodbye. Another day HUSBAND: My wife where are you? WIFE: At home love HUSBAND: Are you sure? WIFE: Yes HUSBAND: Turn on the blender WIFE: (turns blender on) reeereeeereeee HUSBAND: Ok my love goodbye The next day, the husband decides to go home without notice, and finds his son alone and he asked him son where is your mother? SON: I don't know, she went out with the blender...

*****HAPPY WEEKEND*****

08/01/2019

“I Miss My Ex So Much… What Should I Do?”

2019-01-03 02:35:03



There’s really two possible ways you can stop missing your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend and stop feeling so lonely and heartbroken all the time: either you can get over your ex and move on, or you can get back together with them.

If you’re not sure whether you want to get back together — maybe you’re on the fence about it and want to keep your options open — or if you’re dead set on winning your ex’s heart back and starting over with them, then you’ll want to keep reading.

Why Do You Miss Your Ex So Much?

I’ve said this many times in the past, but here’s the simple truth: breakups are one of the toughest things you’ll go through in life.

It’s completely normal to feel absolutely heartbroken when you’ve just been dumped, especially if it was a serious relationship and you’re still in love with your ex.

Trust me, I’ve been there, and I know how gut-wrenching it can be. You might feel like your life is over, like you’ll never be able to love again… it’s a whole lot of heartache, and I sympathize.

hormones in the brainWhat makes breakups so awful? Well, for starters, research has shown that on a neurological level, romantic love is a lot like a drug addiction.

Believe it or not, a breakup causes a very similar chemical response in your brain to that of a drug addict going through withdrawal. Your brain was chemically ‘dependent’ on your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend, and you were psychologically dependent and accustomed to life with them at your side. And now, like a ju**ie in rehab, your brain is paralyzed by their sudden disappearance.

Now, I realize that knowing the science behind heartbreak isn’t really helping you feel any better. So let’s start with the first thing you should do if you miss your ex like crazy…

Step #1: Determine your chance of getting your ex back

For the majority of you reading this right now, you probably still have a good chance of undoing your breakup and winning....

06/01/2019

Forgive Your Lover

2019-01-01 05:38:09

So, what special place does your lover has in your heart than every other person?

A part of your heart so sacred that you wouldn’t even want to share with anyone, right?

Bravo!

But do you mind me asking what special place you have for them when they offend you?

I bet you keep them in the lowest ebb wherein you keep every other person that ever offended you.

Do you desire a bravo on that? No!

Ideally, the path of forgiveness is a part of our daily voyage to an awesome life. To forgive is what we just have to learn to do, no matter what anyone would do to us.

Sometimes, we tend to be bent on not forgiving those who have done us wrong and, funny enough, we extend this act to our lovers too. To be frank, it’s not fair.

See this…

Lionel Messi has been one of the best ever in the history of football. He’s broken many records, got many medals and still relevant among his peers.

But….. He misses penalties which has one of the easiest spots for goal scoring.

Yaya Toure never misses a penalty, and yet he didn’t become the world’s best!

Messi has failed to score many goals too.

Today, many football lovers know how many goals he’s scored all his life!

But did you know…?

There is no record of how many goals he has missed in total!

So why do you keep records of your lover’s shortcomings when there are successes to focus on?

Why do you worry yourself too much over what your critics say about you?

Hey, get it off! Move one! Empty the bin! Shake it off!

Do you know why?

Every little act of unforgivingness you do will accumulate someday and help build your relationship to destruction. That’s no threat, my dear!

A request: Please forgive me. I mean, forgive your lover for whatsoever they’ve done, I plead.

No matter what they’ve done in the past, they can and will still be your best.