19/04/2022
You see the events that has happened in recent times have shown how little we understand Abuse. I have seen those who are activists and supposedly advocates speak very poorly about recent events and that has shown me how ignorant a lot of people are in regards to abuse of all kinds.
First of all, Shame on all of you who solicited for that video. Shame on you who shared it and those who even tried to open it.
That's child p**n0gr@phy. To you all who have shamed and insulted her... shame on you too.
Now, that child is said to be 13 and a 13 year old who is s3xually active has a groomer. We don't come with factory fitted s3xual knowledge. She has been exposed to these things and I bet it will be an Adult, But...
.. the parents have already lost her and it might be too late.
When you have to beat your child to get information out of her then you have failed. If you can not from the eyes of your child tell something is wrong, You have failed. If your child cannot boldly confide in you, You have failed at parenting .
Leave that child alone and focus on those who really failed her. Her family, her school and the adults in her life.
However , since your hypocrisy is as plain as day, Tell me why a son from responsible parents will be caught at his age with a woman. Also tell me why a responsible son will take unsolicited videos of s3x and distribute it for revenge p**n. You know why? You have internalized the misogyny that blames women and girls for everything and absorbs the sins of the man.
Parenting: Do not go on this journey if you aren't ready. The life of a young human(s) is in your care and their life's journey can be thwarted because of your irresponsibility.
Find the groomer or what groomed this children and stop being willfully ignorant.
I yield.