Yetundeylagos

30/07/2025

A friend’s friend is turning 40.
She told my friend to invite me and said “It’s €250”.
I respectfully declined the bills, job no dey.
She said, You can pay in instalments” 😂
Madam, is it Asoebi or a car loan?

Fast forward months later…
She sends a mutual friend to check if I’m still buying.
Our mutual friend explains again I’m still job hunting.

Next thing:
She asks if I can come serve food at the party.
Haaa??? So I went from invited guest to waitress because I didn't buy clothes? 😭😭

And she ends it with:
Your friend no dey find job, na big woman.
In Yoruba ooo 😭😭😭

Dear God,
This is just a reminder...
📞 Pick up my call. Bless my hustle.
So I never have to be humbled like this again. 🙏🏽💔

❤️

09/07/2025

I thought loving harder could fix someone who didn’t want to be fixed.
I thought silence could hold together what was already falling apart.
He left like I didn’t matter and I stayed like I did.

Staying too long stripped my pride, my softness, my peace. But here’s what I found again: my voice.

If you’ve ever stayed too long, you’re not alone.
This space is for you.
One page at a time.

✏️ What did staying too long cost you? Share it below, you’re safe here.

— Yetundeylagos

08/07/2025

Welcome to Yetundeylagos! 🌍✨

This is more than a blog
it’s a safe space for real people and real stories. Here, we share our truths, our wins, our wounds, our voices.

📌 Got a story to tell? Drop it in the comments, my DM, or send me an email , your voice matters.

Let’s build this bridge, one story at a time.

You belong here. 🫶🏾

15/05/2023

15/05/2023

VINTAGE