Oyediran Azeezat, kaduna, Kaduna South (2026)

21/12/2022

My husband rejects my food Everytime we have a misunderstanding and he keeps malice until I beg him.

Sister, stop adding his food when cooking, when he realise that the money he spends eating outside can buy a plot of land nobody will tell him to come home to eat.

My sister why you dey worry yourself na?🤪🤪

16/12/2022

So you don't have to regret for the rest of your life, my single ladies don't leave your job to join your husband after wedding. Let him first help you secure a new job at his place of residence first or set up a business before joining him, e get why. Some men do promise but never fulfill their promises. You become a liability on him that even to buy 10 naira biscuits for your child you have to ask him because you don't have money. He may keep giving you but it will get to a point that insults, overcontrol and lack of respect will set in. You then lose your self esteem as a woman and even afraid to leave the marriage in life threatening situations because you are scared of where to start from.

Let's here your opinion if its different from mine in the comment section.

15/12/2022

HOW A WRITER IS BIRTHED

While growing up, I was an indoor person as I don't go out that much. I discovered that when I sit in front the dressing mirror, I get drifted into a world of my imaginations. I imagined everything you can ever think of. From childhood memories, to marriages , to business, love, deception, romance and so on.

But it never came to my thoughts to write down these stories as they came then if not I would have been a writer and author at a very early age.

At times, I thought something was wrong with me as it's abnormal to talk to oneself in the mirror. No be so madness dey start?

Little did I know that is how a writer is made.

I for don be female version of Wole Soyinka or Chimamanda😬😬.

I for don blow writing great stories from my teens.😆

And also because I was a conservative child, I never talked to anyone about this talent maybe I would have been rightly guided.

Some of these stories I find myself imagining were so intense and emotional that I find myself shedding hot uncontrollable tears when I get back to real life.

I remember the story of how a sister -inlaw did everything possible to separate her brother from his wife. She lied that their kids weren't her brother's. She even went to the extent of conniving with doctors and lab technician to falsify the DNA results.
God... that story was so heart touching that I cried ehn.

But I realized it's never to late to showcase my talent to the world.
To make people read heart touching stories they can pick a thing or 2 from.

This is what birth STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Why should you read to wonderful ebook?

You will learn patience and perseverance from the case of Mrs Segun.

You will know when to leave an Abusive marriage as the story of Sarah.

You will learn never to become second choice in anyone life.

You will understand that marriage is not a bed of roses and not all that glitters is gold as in the story of Adetoun.

You will learn to connect deeply with your Lord when marital issues arises just like Asma did.

You will learn to trust and communicate issues with your wife as in the case of Sulieman.

You will understand never take a good man that overlooks your shortcomings for granted just as in the case of Rose.

You will enjoy love story of Rose and Marcus.

You will learn to impact lives and make your money even as a stay at home mom.

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14/12/2022

Mrs Esther, Mrs Maryam get a job or a business or learn a skill. At least have something doing that makes you earn your own money. This will make your husband respect and value you in that marriage. He will think twice before he does anyhow.

12/12/2022

You are always served breakfast all the time and you say your village people is not allowing you to find a man and settle down. Nne is not your village people kankan, it's you that don't know what you want and keep repeating same mistakes all the time with men. You keep shouting men are scum but what value do you bring to the table? How valuable are you? Sister check yourself and add value to your life so that reasonable and responsible man who can percieve your worth will come and sweep you off your feet else it's those that what to chop and clean mouth will keep coming.

09/12/2022

I strongly believe that there should be serious marriage counseling for about to wed.

It's so sad that alot of women are going through hell on their marriages because of their husbands.

We hear alot like;
He insults me in front of our children.

He doesn't love or care for me anymore.

He lies against me and make me look bad in front of everyone.

He rejects my food.

He hits me every day.

He keeps malice with me until I beg even if I am not at fault.

He borrows money from me and do not return it.

He keeps me away from my family.

And the list goes on.

If you are such a husband that does this to your wife, how do you sleep at night knowing fully well you are hurting someone's daughter?

Do do have the fear of God at all?

How will you feel if another man does same thing to your sister or daughter?

Aahh , Women are really suffering in the hands of men.

Husbands fear Allah!

Husbands fear Allah!

Remember we will all give account for everything we do.

Have you forgotten the prophet's (P b u h) saying " the best husband is one who is best to his wife"?

What happened to kindness and compassion? She didn't beg to be with you. You proposed to her and promised her heaven and earth before she accepted your proposal.

Now you are make life a living hell for her.

Hmmmm!

The Almighty is watching ; is all I can say.

But you can do better.

You can become a better husband and father.

You can be a listener, a cheerleader, a friend and a loving partner to your wife.

For the sake of Allah and the judgement day .. BE BETTER.

Oyediran Azeezat.

08/12/2022

A married woman's mental health is very crucial for herself and those that value her existence.

It's okay to have troubles in marriage.

It's not your fault.

I know you have tried so hard to make things work, you have prayers fervently, to have been patient, you have been silent just to avoid arguements.

You are really a super woman.

And your reward lies with your Lord.

But what if your mental health is at stake, you have to be mentally okay to take care of those kids you stay in an abusive marriage for.

It's okay to seek help.

Forget what the society will say.

Forget what your family will say.

It doesn't matter what his family calls you.

Your happiness is Paramount and you are the only one in charge of it. And only then can you radiate such happiness to those that loves and value you.

Sending you hugs from here.

You are precious 💞💞

Oyediran Azeezat.

08/12/2022

Single ladies, please think with your brain and not your heart.

You see this marriage is not for the faint hearted.

A man that doesn't have a job, no business, no future plans to get a steady source of income yet, he's a good guy to you abi?

How does he plan to take care of you, the responsibilities of the home and the kids when you start birthing?

A man that you are already spending on while dating, you even take loan for.

You don become the husband be that na after you take 💯% of the wedding finances.

You will now start complaining that you do everything in the home, he's lazy, he doesn't help with the housechores, he doesn't help with the kids, he's cheating etc.

You already took off the responsibilities from his shoulders so he has time to galavant around.

Dears single sister, please think with your head.

Don't be in a rush to get married cos if you rush in you will rush out.

Many married women are taking full responsibilities of their home today yet the husband doesn't appreciate their efforts. They keep taking all forms of abuse because of their kids.

I pray yours won't be like theirs.

DON'T START WHAT YOU CANT FINISH.

THINK WITH YOUR HEAD AND NOT YOUR HEART.

Good morning and have a lovely day.

Oyediran Azeezat.

07/12/2022

We said bad marriages these days can be attributed to ignoring the red flags during courtship.

So what are those red flags that single ladies need to know.

Here are few below.

1. If a man tells you that you both will share the responsibilities of the home after wedding, my sister run. A reasonable and responsible man should know that he bears all the responsibilities of the home. If the wife wants to help then it should be on her own volition.

2. If a man still has contact with his ex and/or also chatting with many ladies even when with you. Cheating/ extra marital affairs have being a major marital challenge for some time immemorial.

3. When a man complains about you visiting your family even before marriage.

4. When a man seems overly controlling and doesn't seems to ask or listen your opinions.

5. When a man drinks, smokes or deal with drugs. My sister, nobody can change an adult after marriage. Let that sink in.

6. When he jokingly slaps you or being aggressive over little issues.. aunty run 440.. that's how domestic violence starts and the bitter truth is that it only get worse after marriage. Those small slaps will turn into punches that can blind the eye or even lead to death.

Let me stop here now..

We will add more some other time.

Do have a blessed day.

Oyediran Azeezat.

04/12/2022

Does your husband think that you’re the bomb? Do you think your husband is? Thinking your spouse is the bomb is just another way of saying, “We’re an awesome team, and we’re in this parenting thing together!” If you’re at that good place in your marriage, great! If you’re not quite there, then here are gives 5 Solutions for 5 common marriage problems by i Specialist Kathy Peel that can especially help if you think your husband is not stepping up enough at home.

1. Marriage Problem: Your husband doesn’t appreciate what you do at home.
His standard greeting as he comes in the door and glances around the messy living room is, “So what did you do all day?” You are irritated because he doesn’t appreciate your hard work at home and in fact expects you to do more to meet his needs.

Solution: Schedule time to talk with him alone. Before bringing up your feelings, listen to his. Tell him your goal is to be a good wife, mother, and family manager. Talk about how you can work together to make your home run more smoothly.

2. Marriage Problem: Your husband spends too little time helping out.
Whether it is with housecleaning, cooking, or caring for your children-it’s never enough to actually make a dent.

Solution: Take time to discuss your need for help and why he hasn’t done more to assist you. Perhaps he felt he’d be intruding your territory, so he backed off. Maybe he has tried in the past and your standards were so high he felt frustrated and scolded rather than appreciated for his effort.

3. Marriage Problem: You try to make him feel guilty for refusing to step up and help around the house.
You’re frustrated by his uncooperative attitude.

Solution: Trying to manipulate him using guilt usually worsens the situation. Instead, thank him any time you catch him helping around the house. Also, consider that many men like options. Rather than ordering him to do something, give him a list of chores and ask him to select several to complete.

4. Marriage Problem: He’s oblivious.
While it’s perfectly obvious to you what needs to be done around the house, your husband seems totally oblivious. You get tired of telling him to do the same things over and over.

Solution: Besides being gracious and patient, keep in mind that everyone is different, and he actually really might not see what needs to be done. There are areas in all of our lives where we don’t live up to each other’s expectations. See solutions 1-3 for ideas on how to approach him.

01/12/2022

Best Pieces of Marriage Advice for Newlyweds
Marriage Counseling Racheal Tasker
Newlyweds go right from the highs of the wedding and honeymoon into a crash course on reality in the married world. Psychotherapist Christina Steinorth believes it is all too easy for newly married couples to make mistakes as they begin to navigate the rough waters of family, shared finances, and day-to-day life. This guide contains practical advice for newlyweds that just might help you avoid some of the most common pitfalls.

1. Never Go to Bed Angry
angry-couple-in-bed
Even in the happiest of marriages, arguments are inevitable. Learn to address any issues that arise head-on instead of holding them in. For centuries, people have been giving advice for newlyweds that they should settle any conflicts before going to bed so that each party can wake up with a renewed sense of marital bliss.

2. Deal with Your Own Family
Whether your family meddles or keeps to themselves, there’s always the chance that they’ll ruffle your spouse’s feathers. When this happens, take it upon yourself to talk to your family and, if necessary, ask them to apologize to your partner. This takes a huge burden off of your spouse while keeping the family unit whole.

3. Keep It Simple
After the vows, many young couples—especially first-timers—are tempted to jump into a new life with both feet. This is often a mistake. Remember that you’ve just gotten married. More disruption, such as moving, changing jobs, or joining your spouse’s church, will only add stress. Try waiting until six months after the ceremony before making any other large changes to your lives.

4. Watch Your Budget
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A researcher from Utah State University found that couples who argue about finances at least once each week have a 30 percent higher chance of eventually divorcing than those who argue about money less frequently. As a new couple, you’ll be amazed at how fast your money goes. Try to track every penny, hire a financial planner if it helps, and remember that asking in-laws for loans is a quick way to start fights between you.

5. Don’t Quit Your Day Jobs
Along with careful budgeting for expenses, it helps if you both work. Not only are two incomes better than one but each of you will feel more invested in your combined financial success if you’re both kicking into the pot.

6. Make Big Plans
You’ve only got one life, and you’ve promised to spend it together. Why not plan big? One thing that holds newlyweds together is shared dreams. If one of you wants to be a world-renowned artist and the other wants to be a brain surgeon, talk it over. Maybe together you can make it, but you’ll have to start planning now.

7. Make Realistic Plans
While you’re both dreaming big together, remember that the rent is still due on the first of the month. Make use of each other’s support, ideas, and hard work to put one foot in front of the other. Setting your sights on a $1 per hour raise isn’t wildly romantic, but it will help keep the wolf away and do more for the stability of your relationship than all the unrealized dreams you’ve ever had.

30/11/2022

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