18/08/2026
“My father says he doesn’t want to go to daycare.”
I hear this quite often from families, even when they can see their parents enjoying the activities and benefiting from the experience.
My advice? Don’t try to convince them straight away. Ask, “What made you feel that way?”
Sometimes, “I don’t want to go” isn’t really about daycare. They may feel shy, out of place, or worry that going to daycare means losing their independence.
Even the word “daycare” can feel uncomfortable. Try calling it a Senior Club, Kopitiam Club, or simply a place to meet friends and enjoy the day.
Focus on what they might enjoy. A familiar face, an activity they liked, or simply having somewhere to go during the week.
And give them some control. Let them choose the day, start with fewer days, or arrange another short visit. One trial is only one day. It takes time for a new place to feel familiar, and friendships don’t happen overnight.
Tell our team what your parent enjoys, dislikes, and what helps them feel comfortable. The more we understand them, the better we can welcome them.
So, respect their first “no”, but don’t close the door just yet. Give them time, reassurance, and another chance to find their place.
If they’re willing to try, we welcome them at Oretha’s Senior Daycare in SS3 Petaling Jaya or Cheras.
xoxo,
Oretha
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