NOVA X Transformation

03/01/2026

Some people can't meet you at your depth - it's not a flaw in you. It's a sign to choose where you speak, not a reason to silence your truth.

This post is for anyone who ever felt "too deep", too clear, too much. You're not too much, you're just not for shallow pools. "Open up, expand, swim for deeper oceans - there you will thrive"

29/04/2023

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This wins the awwww award of the day. ❤️

28/04/2023

"Empaths" - Always giving your "advice" to pople who want it but never take it?

People who complain about their lives, how they are treated by others, how they feel like no one cares about them and how they feel, but they never actually make any moves to do anything about it.

You, because you are an "empath" you "feel for them" while they complain, you want to help them, you think, maybe they've had enough now and are ready to do something about it this time, maybe they now see its them who need to change, and you freely give them your wisdom, your insight, the truth of the matter that you so clearly see.

Then, after a few hours/days, you notice theyre right back in their old pattern, as if the very thing they were previously complaining about does not bother them now.

You have just massively leaked your energy and power to that person. They feel much better, because they have just consumed your energy. Where they felt empty and unseen, you have filled their "gap" You have topped up their energy by leaking your own. You are actually enabling them to carry on in this cycle at your expense.

You may feel drained, emotional, and/or that the things they complained about happening to them have now transferred to you and are happening in your life too as a direct result of participating in this highly toxic and co-dependant relationship dynamic.

If you "must" interact with this person, ( you ALWAYS have a choice in the matter ) it is imperitive that you have energetic and or physical boundaries firmly in place, and stop allowing them to feed on your energy.

Stop giving them advice, stop giving them your wisdom, stop giving them your truth.
They really are not interested in it, and dont value it, they may even talk about you and your "crazyness" to the people that they are trying to gain approval from, the ones they complained to you about.

All they really want from you is your attention, your energy, your love and care to fill the gaps in their own energy field.

This will only have a negative impact on your life as a result. Take your energy back, and use it to grow and nurture yourself and your dreams instead. Stop putting yourself last, decide you are worth putting your energy into instead of them!!

Keep moving, changing and growing, life is a wipeable canvas and you are the artist.

14/02/2023

Happy Valentines day!

Giving your "whole heart away" this valentines day? Be aware, when you do this, you are saying, "I give everything I am to you" my energy, my love, my power etc. When we think we need to give everything away to another person, our "whole heart" we are making that person our world, our "rock". We are saying, I dont know what Id be without you. Its lack conciousness, a belief that 1 we need to give this much in order to be loved and feel secure in our relationship. 2 That we expect the same in return, (which commonly is not happening when we give this level of ourselves away) and 3 that we dont know who we are without that person.
It tends to be the woman who gives herself like this, we dont realise that men are not made up the same as us. And its the energetic foundation for a troubled and failing relationship.
Never give your whole heart away to someone else. You need it, it is your power, it is your worth, it is your confidence, your unique frequency with which to create your life. Your whole heart is too much and too powerful to put on one person. Part of it is enough to give, very powerful, a divine gift and if someone demands more from you, then its because they are not yet open to receiving, and is their issue not yours.
Lets move away from the ideas about love that society has projected onto us to keep us in a state of powerlesness. Its time we knew the powerful, divine beings we are, we place our own value on what we choose to give. To claim who we are, conciousness dynamics like co-dependancy must go, so we can embrace our sovereignty.
So ladies/gents, keep some of that love for yourself (time, effort, energy, appreciation, care, money, power) and know you are enough! ❤

02/01/2023

Me too 🤗💜