12/22/2021
A lot of times when a woman leaves a long term relationship the man’s very first thoughts are “she found someone else” “how could she do this“ all these years together“ and so much more,
BUT what men don’t think about is all the times she went to sleep feeling like s**t because she caught him talking to other women.
Or all the times that he would disrespect her and call her out her name
Or how he kept saying he would change but never did
Men don’t think about all the times she was there when no one else was.
How she prayed to God to help him change. Men don’t think about how she always put everyone and everything before herself.
Men don’t think about how all her friends and family told her to walk away but still she stayed
No...all men can think is “how could she do this” ...women don’t just wake up one day and decide to leave
A man's actions, his words, the way he makes her feel, builds up over time and eventually all his crap becomes this weight that she just can’t carry anymore
When she stops venting to you, when she stops getting on you, when she stops trying to get you to see things her way, just know it’s not because you won and finally she’ll put up with everything
It’s because she’s preparing her escape from your toxic ways
So no, she didn’t leave you to find someone else .
She left so she can find HERSELF
Appreciate your woman while you have her
Ladies...know and realize your worth, love yourself
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