06/12/2026
A little trainer vulnerability today.
A few months ago, I had to make one of the hardest decisions Iāve made as a dog trainer: I referred a client out.
He was a young Cane Corso/Great Dane mix who hadnāt received any formal training until he was nearly a year old. He was over 100 pounds, incredibly strong, and had already developed some challenging habits. Despite that, he was a sweet dog, and for five sessions we worked together without any major issues.
Then, during our sixth lesson, he became frustrated.
We were working on leash manners, and he wanted to pull, jump, and do what he wanted. When I didnāt allow that, he redirected his frustration onto me and bit me. Thankfully, I reacted quickly and only sustained a minor injury, but it was enough for me to realize that he needed a trainer with more experience handling aggression cases and more time to dedicate to his needs.
So I referred him out.
Honestly? It shook my confidence more than I wanted to admit.
Since then, I havenāt worked with another adult Cane Corso.
Until Bear.
When I walked into our first session together, I noticed something I wasnāt expecting: hesitation. I was nervous. My brain immediately connected āadult Cane Corsoā with the last experience Iād had.
The thing is, dogs deserve for us to see them, not our past experiences.
So I took a breath, reminded myself that Bear wasnāt that dog, and walked into the session with an open mind.
And Bear was fantastic.
Does he have challenges? Absolutely. Weāre working through some reactivity and resource guarding concerns. But he was thoughtful, engaged, eager to learn, and an absolute pleasure to work with.
More importantly, he reminded me of something Iād lost sight of for a moment:
A breed is not an individual.
One difficult experience doesnāt define an entire breed, and one mistake doesnāt define a trainer.
Sometimes growth looks like teaching a dog something new.
Sometimes growth looks like recognizing your own fears, working through them, and showing up anyway.
Thank you for the reminder, Bear. š¤