08/07/2022
Bubba started jiu jitsu about a month ago, and I had no idea what to expect.
Sure, I thought it was going to help with focus and definitely with helping get energy out. It is NOT for the weak that’s for sure.
Not only do Adam and Nico get to experience this together, but I swear it’s helped with the difficult transition to 5! At 5 they demand independence while also afraid of not being a little kid anymore. They want to assert their own power, and be confident in doing so.
This, from a parents end, looks like disrespect, monster meltdowns and attitude.
We started jiu jitsu (not really because of these, it just worked out like this) and I can tell you that I have seen so much growth in him maturity wise. It’s brought up so many opportunities for conversations on how to be a good partner/teammate by not gloating, + cheering each other on. By making him become accountable for his own behaviors- despite what others are doing, encouraging him to always do what’s right. (And we’ve seen him do it!!)
Physically, he’s grown so much in strength and stamina, and become “tougher”. He can do things with his body that I thought would take him so much longer to master in just days. He goes 5/6 days a week and LOVES it!
He knows names and all steps for at least 10 take downs, arm bars + chokes. But most of all, the mixed ages of kiddos from 5-12 are like a family. They all encourage each other and help each other.
After just a month he already earned his first stripe 😭 and he is so proud!
This has been the best thing for Nico and Adam. BJJ is so much more than a sport.