03/09/2026
Happy Woman’s International Day. In life there’s so many chapters that we as women go through. The first chapter is childhood, free and clear. No worries you’re just trying to live in happiness playing with your siblings and cousins not realizing your building relationships. The next chapter is Adolescent years, acne and going through menstrual cycles not knowing it’s preparing for your body for perimenopause and menopause. Building more relationships through school years and still having those bonds teach you how to be present in life. The next chapter is Adulthood, figuring out what you should be doing, pursuing life and living through trials and tribulations. The next chapter is Motherhood, this is by far my favorite chapter, I may have not done it traditionally with marriage and with one baby father, I had two, and I did it my way!!!! I was a strict mom, not that I’m proud of it, I just seen a lot and wanted to love my daughters differently and if strict was a love language, then I spoke it fluently unapologetically. My mother parenting style was different from mine, she loved us down, she spoiled us the way she knew how, I learned a lot from my mother 🌹… each generation parents differently. The next chapter is the finding your way chapter, I had parented my children where I was so involved, that I had to remember I was more than a mother and to this day I still struggle with that, I honor my daughters so much, their love means the world to me. The next chapter is the evolving into an entrepreneur. This chapter you can really lose yourself, because you’re birthing something else, you have to feed it, nurture it and in reverse it can strip you of you. Life can Discipline you or you’ll be subject to the ways of defeat, but you have to grab it by the balls,as the saying goes. This new chapter, dealing with perimenopause and menopause is life changing, however I’m showing up for myself and living my authentic life. There’s more to my story, my future looks promising, my light is shining brighter, the best years of my life are ahead of me. HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMAN’S DAY.