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20/03/2024

"The kindest people are the individuals who experienced the worst pain."

Everybody experiences and had experienced their own pain and struggles.

But not everybody has the courage to choose to be kind despite those bad experiences.

So choose to be courageous enough to accept those pain and turn into the kindest version of yourself that you can ever be — without tolerating bad treatment and disrespect from others; even from yourself.

Learn to accept the bad experiences that you had. You are kind now because of them. Embracing the means that you can love yourself with all the scars and traumas that you had.

It means that you can love yourself genuinely as a whole.

16/03/2024

They are the souls that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson.
— A Gentle Reminder

Being kind is a choice. Choose to be one.

Choosing kindness when things get bad means that you are choosing to prioritize your own peace.

Kindness that is given will inevitably come back.

15/03/2024

We are not afraid of failure itself. Sometimes, we are afraid of what others might think of us when we fail; or that we are not as great as we or others thought we were; we are afraid of seeing the disappointed faces of others.

👉🏼But worry not, it's okay to fail! It's okay to be disappointed! Its okay to disappoint others because you failed! Why are we so afraid of disappointing people who didn't even know what we went through.

We cannot control other people's mind, so why think of what's in it?

🙌🏼When you fail, it's important to mourn and feel the bad feelings for some time. But remember to stand back up again and think: What can I learn from this?🤔

‼️Trophies and reputation are not the only thing we gain in competitions. The most important thing we have to gain are the LESSONS!

14/03/2024

We do not have to be great in all things. We are gifted with special talents. Things that make us happy when we do them. Sometimes, it just takes more exploration for others to discover what their talent is.

If you are that person, do not be fazed.

👉🏼That just means that your talent is uncommon and not many people are doing it. You have a unique talent that no one around you has ever tried. It will take time for you to discover it but until then, do not lose hope.🙌🏼

❗Do not look at yourself as a talentless being, you just haven't found yours yet.

09/03/2024

This goes for all relationships. Friendships, family, work environment, etc.

👉🏼When you're in the right circle, they will be sincere just as you are to them. You will never have to feel left out or that you are too much. They will call out your mistakes instead of leaving you out.

✨As long as you strive to be good and to love them, they will give back the love that you deserve.

08/03/2024

07/03/2024

🤔You know what the root cause of most procrastination is? We don't know what we really want — what we want to accomplish, what we want to feel, what we want to achieve.

👉🏼Try going into your room without thinking what you want to do there, you'll end up scrolling on your phone, sleeping, almost nothing productive.

💡But try going into the day knowing what you want to achieve, how you want to feel at the end of the day, you'll be more productive because you know where you're going.

🫠Some doesn't do this because of the fear that they might not achieve what they want, so they tell themselves "why start at all?". 🥱

‼️Having an end in mind does not guarantee that you will reach it, but NOT having an end in mind will guarantee that you will not.

06/03/2024

Check on your friends, not just the one who looks like they need it but even the one who is the most reliable.

That one friend whom everyone opens up to. That one friend who always manages to lift up the mood.

🙌🏼We are all humans, we need each other. If someone has helped you during your tough times, it will mean a lot to them when you check on them, when you invite them to celebrate with you, when you mourn with them during their tough times.

Check on your friends, especially those who have helped you. Even if you do it randomly when they do not need it at the time, they will certainly appreciate it.

✨Make them feel that you got their back too.

28/02/2024

Never speak about something important when you're not ready.

It is easy to just do — dive in or talk immediately. But it takes courage, awareness, and difficulty to stop, pause, and think:

No, I am not ready yet.
I'm not sure i can do it yet.

🙌🏼Choose to be aware, to be courageous. If it is for the better, choose the difficult things.

Whenever you are tasked or forced to speak of important things, take your time.
❗Assess your own thoughts and make sure that you are not acting emotionally, selfishly, ignorantly, or prematurely.

28/02/2024

👉🏼Most of us give importance to what we feel rather than what we think.

Even though we know that french fries and other junk foods are not healthy to eat, we still continue to eat it because we feel happy when we eat them.

This goes the same for other things, we cannot convince ourselves to satisfaction. Satisfaction cannot be explained, it can only be felt.

✨That's why great leaders win the hearts of their people first. They do not win them through arguments but with making them feel seen and cared for.

25/02/2024

👉🏼It is an innate human desire to belong to a social group. Once we feel like we belong and that we are a great fit in a group, we feel security and happiness from that.

As a leader, NEVER make anyone feel like they're working alone for survival and for nothing but things that are insignificant in their interest. ❗
🎖️Make them feel that they're going to be a part of something great, greater than themselves and can only be done by working in a group.

Ordering them to work isn't enough. Telling them what to do and how to do it isn't enough.

✨Don't just give them something to work on. Give them something to work towards.