01/12/2022
My definition of s*x is a meaningful experience of pleasure—so the entire time you’re experiencing pleasure, that’s s*x,” says Wright. Thus, longer s*x isn’t necessarily about erections, or***ms, or pe*******on. “It’s about making the meaningful experience of pleasure and connection have a larger container.”
Moreover, if you’re super hung up on lasting longer in bed, you may just be doing yourself a disservice. “Sometimes when people are so hyper-focused on lasting longer, they forget to actually enjoy themselves and be present in the moment,” says Tanner. That said, there are plenty of totally valid reasons for wanting s*x to last longer. After all, who doesn’t want more of a good thing?
