29/07/2026
Good day, mamas. Please, I really need your advice because I messed up badly. I wanted to cohabit with my guy before marriage but my parents frowned against it. So we got married like that under one year.
At the beginning of my marriage, I used one kynmata thing like that because I wanted my husband to focus only on me. My biggest deal breaker was cheating, so I wanted him to love only me, desire only me, and have eyes for no other woman. I thought it would help me and my children enjoy his undivided attention and finances. Fast forward one year into the marriage, and I discovered that my husband has absolutely nothing to his name. Everything he presented during our courtship turned out to be false. The house his brother helped him pay one year rent only. The business he was fronting was for his friend abroad and the guys wife ha taken over. No job no skill. No wonder his family was so eager for us to do everything quickly Now I’m the one going out every morning, working tirelessly from morning till night to provide for the family, while my husband is at home, sleeping from morning till night when i return home he starts showering me with empty nonsense love upon love upon love. Back to back sess. The love is now too much, and honestly, it’s becoming irritating because he’s always honey and it doesn’t pay the bills. When i look at him i don’t see the handsome man i fell in love with and married i see a 🐐 instead
I’ve even tried contacting the woman who gave me the Kayamata, hoping she could reverse it, but she has passed on. Instead of him looking for job like I advised him he is talking about how he loves me and how he wants our family to grow with children who will train them? Me?? With nothing but love to offer from him? The condition i gave him is get a good job then i will get pregnant otherwise forget it. Please, if anyone has any advice for me, I would really appreciate it. I don’t want this excess love anymore. Please help me!